A year-long cycling trip from Hungary to Viet Nam expands horizons and strengthen bonds and understanding. Hong Van has an endearing story.
As love stories go, there was nothing particularly surprising about Hungarian Peter Sas and Vietnamese Dong Thi Huong Linh meeting and tying the knot after a period of courtship.
Happens all the time.
However, that the affair started in Thai Nguyen Province is somewhat unusual. It is not often that a foreign exchange student chooses to do study in a locality based on his love for tea. The fact that the affair picked up again in Finland is a bit of a surprise too.
But what the couple did for their honeymoon a year after getting married makes their story something to write home about.
So, this love story begins in 2011, when Sas first came to Viet Nam under a student-exchange programme. The tea lover chose Thai Nguyen, the country’s largest tea producing province. He spent six months at Thai Nguyen University, where Linh was studying Environmental Engineering.
“I had visited several tea farms before yet the methods I saw at home and from tea connoisseurs were different from Viet Nam.
“In India and Nepal, people boil it with milk; in China, locals steep tea only for a few seconds for a light taste.
“But there, everyday, locals use way more tea leaves for one pot than anywhere else, and the leaves are well-steeped for a few minutes. The strongest and most bitter green tea can only be found in Viet Nam. The fresh tea is also unique here.”
After finishing his stint, Sas returned home, to Hungary, not knowing if he would meet Linh again.
“It was fate that six months after he left, I got a scholarship to pursue a masters degree in Finland. Sas then travelled from Hungary to Finland to see me, a day after I arrived,” said Linh.
In Finland, the relationship blossomed and led to marriage in 2015. But it was in 2014, in a pub in Hungary, that the seeds of an unusual honeymoon were sowed.
“The idea evoked slowly. We were in a pub, calculating how much money we had, how far we could travel and by which means of transport. Slowly, an idea came to me. Why don’t we do it on a bicycle, as I’d seen many others cycling around the world,” said Sas.
“We checked our finances, how big challenge we wanted… and then we decided that we would go from my home (Győr) to her home in Viet Nam. This route motivated us a lot, especially Linh, as it would be the first time she returned to Viet Nam since our marriage.”
Before starting off, the couple went on two biking trips around Europe, each lasting a week, so as to test their equipment and durability.
They eventually set off from Győr in August 2016. Despite preparing well, things get difficult.
“During the first week, I was mentally weak,” said Linh.
Sas had to encourage his wife a lot.
“From the next week, biking became a routine, just the destinations changed.” said Linh.
Iran, unmatched hospitality
To prepare for the trip, the couple spent half a year researching, reading reviews and learning from the experience of cyclists; and making logistics purchases.
They cycled through Hungary, Croatia, Bosnia and Herzegovina, Montenegro, Albania, Greece, Iran, the United Arab Emirates, Sri Lanka, India, Nepal, and China before arriving at Linh’s home in August this year.
“With this trip, we have been through many difficult situations together: when one got sick and we couldn’t find any hospital; travelling through a sandstorm in Iran; experiencing other harsh weather conditions together. This made us understand the other much better,” said Linh.
No day was like another, but the general rule was to cycle in the morning, sightsee from 3 to 4pm, and finding lodging.
“Finding lodging was always stressful, but still a fun and interesting part of the day. We often roamed around, talking to random people. We found different solutions in different countries,” said Sas.
“In Europe, sometimes yes, sometimes no. In India, locals would show cheap hotels for us and in China, police were very helpful in finding accommodation for us,” Linh said.
“Most of the time in China, we went to the police to ask a place to camp. They found a hotel for us and sometimes even bargained for us or dropped us in a fancy hotel and offered us to stay there for free. Once, the police invited us to have dinner and we enjoyed the meal in a canteen with lots of police officers,” said Linh.
Meanwhile, in Iran, locals were willing to host whenever the couple asked.
“In the two months in Iran, we stayed either with locals or in the mosque. Every time we asked, there was always something we could find,” said Linh.
“The local hosts never charged us for lodging. If we tried to pay, they would get angry. Sometimes they even gave us money, jewellery and lots of gifts when they learnt we were on our honeymoon.
“From the first day, we enjoyed their kindness, and when our days were hard, we were down, there was always someone coming to help us out and make our day unbelievable.
“We have to tell people that it’s all wrong in the media. Iran is super safe and friendly. We didn’t have any problem during our stay here, not even the slightest,” said Linh.
Source: VNS